Nonverbal Communication Expert For Education + Business: Michael Grinder


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It’s Krista Grinder-Dettloff here, and I’m joined by my dad, Michael Grinder! Over the years, I’ve had the privilege of learning from my father—whether it was through our shared experiences or by watching him revolutionize the way people communicate. Recently, a great question came my way: Could I interview my dad about how his work connects with others? The answer? Absolutely!

Where It All Began

Education, NLP & The Power of Observation

Love & Logic, ENVoY & Classroom Management

One of the biggest milestones in my mind? His collaboration with Love & Logic, where he shared ENVoY, a book on the nonverbal side of classroom management. Jim Fay invited him to teach alongside their team, and the connection was a natural fit. From preserving relationships (ENVoY), to establishing relationships (A Cat in the Doghouse), to understanding group dynamics (The Healthy Classroom), his work has reshaped education at every level.

From Education to Leadership

A Key Takeaway for YOU

Want a quick exercise to improve your communication? Try this:

  • Recall a past event where emotions took over.
  • Mentally step outside yourself and view the scene from a different perspective.
  • Identify a direction (in front, behind, left, or right), establish distance, and observe from that point.
  • Assign a pronoun to yourself (he/she/they) and watch the scene unfold from this detached viewpoint.

This method gives you fresh insight and more choices when similar situations arise in the future. Give it a try!

Go Apply These Tools Today!

You’ve just spent a few moments with us learning how to become a better communicator—now it’s time to take action! Use these insights today and see the impact in your interactions.

Until next time,

Michael Grinder & Krista Grinder-Dettloff

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